Yes,I am talking about a tan.
I am a REALLY pale strawberry blonde and figure that is the way nature intended me to be.Beauty really comes in all colors! I am 42 with no wrinkles yet because I have stayed out of the sun as much as I can.I wear a sunscreen with SPF 45 when I garden or go to the beach.
Also,and much more importantly to remember,is that 2 of my relatives who have been sun worshippers now have skin cancer!:-(

Having had skin cancer I do not look at a girl/woman with a tan and think she looks great – sure a tan is nice but it’s so bad for you I see a girl running out of a tanning salon and hope for the best for her – the sun/and sun damage may age you faster but it can also kill you!!

You are wise – and it’s great bits of advice. :)